Usually this post is about my person, Denise, but this time it's about my people. Because it's about my support system. My support system consists of two very important people. Two people that I would call for anything. I wish I could say that one of the people I am talking about is my husband, but he isn't consistantly part of my support team b/c, well, he is 50 Shades of F*#%! Up. Yea, I read 50 Shades of Grey and felt like I was reading a book about my husband (minus the money dang it. Makes sense that he would be exactly like Christian Grey except that he has no money! And he isn't a masochist in the bedroom). So, although I love my husband and think he is a great father, he isn't just a real great husband. But, this blog isn't about my husband, it's about my BFF, and this specific post is about her and someone else who is equally important but b/c that person is a male, he can't do some of the crazy things Denise and I do together because it would just be inappropriate! For privacy sake, I will call him "J." If I call him by his middle name he might do something crazy, like spill the beans on things I have done that only he knows about! So, J it is! I have known J since I was 14 years old. We didn't start out as friends. Infact, he started out being very jealous of me b/c he was my boyfriends (now husband) best friend. They were like peas and carrots, Bubba and Forrest, John and The Beatles... and he thought I was Yoko. I was breaking up the band. After awhile though, he and I grew close and now are closer with each other than he and my husband are (now my husband is Yoko). Now, 20 years later, J is still someone I look to for support, advice and guidance. I have been through so many different things in my life, some great, some horrible and without the support of Denise and J, I am not sure how I would have made it. They are a Godsend and I am not sure if they truly know this. They are the type of people that I honestly don't know where my life would be if they weren't a part of it. They both have close relationships with both of my kids and I trust both of them with my life and the life of my kids. They supply the strength I need when things get tough. I can tell each of them anything. And what is great about both of them, is when I whine and gripe about the same thing that is usually a problem for me, they don't tell me to suck it up and deal with it. They both know that I already know I need to do it and that sometimes it's easier to say than to do. No, they don't do that. They provide an ear to listen, a shoulder to cry on and, if I needed it, an uppercut to the person that is causing me grief. And I am so thankful for that. I appreciate that they listen even though they have heard it all before. I appreciate that they love me for who I am. I appreciate that they would and have done so much for me and my family. I appreciate the fact that they pray for me and my family. I know that I owe them so much and I am not really sure how you repay a debt like that. Maybe by just giving back to them what they give to me. I hope they feel like I am that person for them. J and Denise, I love you both very much. Denise, if I were a lesbian, you would be my woman (but I am not and that is gross so you will just be my BFF). And J, you are my back up. I have thought about filing for divorce just to marry you, but I haven't found a ball gag big enough to fit your mouth yet. I will continue to do daily google searches to find one, but until then, I will dream about the day I can be YOUR Christian Grey. You will submit to me. Muah ha ha.....muah hahahahahaha! Love you both. Saying thank you seems like such an understatement, so I will say tu juelas como la caca de mi perro. I know.... that was beautiful.... And you're welcome....
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